Sunday, April 12, 2009

Need advice about whether to end a friendship!?

I have a friend for fifteen years. We went to HS, ran track and went the same college for awhile. three years ago she got married and I was maid of honor. We had problems in the friendship before, but managed to stay in contact. I broke my back and bank trying to do the bridesmaids duties, beautiful wedding shower, bachelorette party, went to the planning meetings, helped make flower arrangements, etc. Then the night before the wedding at practice. I found out I wouldn%26#039;t be in the maid of honor position her cousin would be, as the matron of honor. Everyone was surprised, bridesmaids and grooms family tried to talk her out of it, but she made up her mind. A few months later. She is pregnant and I am named godmother. I threw her baby shower, helped with 1st Bday. Today, was his 2nd Bday party bought B-cake, gift, made quilt and someone said the child%26#039;s godparents were coming. Refering to someone else! I saw the look on her face and knew it was true. What to do?
Need advice about whether to end a friendship!?
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FlowersBirthday FlowersSympathy Flowersit sounds like she%26#039;s just using you because she knows your reliable. i would just back off for a while and see how she reacts if your not in the picture. good luck. friendships are hard to end but sometimes its for the best.
Reply:I agree with Veronica, she%26#039;s just using you. You%26#039;re willing to use your money for her things and you are reliable in that.
Reply:tell that ***** to make up her mindacting resources

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